My Better Half and I are fairly new to chastity: we've recently ordered a custom cage from Evotion Wearables with the intention of me building up to being locked full-time with release only with occasional release for cleaning or when She wants to tease/ride/reward me. As we live in the UK and I don't have to go through security gates, this seems realistic, and ideally I'd want to have no access to a key. She'll wear the main key on a chain around her neck, with a spare one in a keysafe to which only She knows the combination. Do others out there have experiences of being locked long-term without access to an emergency key, or of being the key holder in such a situation?
subrobboHi, my Mistress always held all the keys so there is no chance of me releasing myself, once I got used to the stainless steel cage that i'm locked in there is no need for an emergency key so I can never get an orgasm without Mistress's permission.7 months ago
subsam4uI feel that it's always a good idea to have an emergency release procedure in place. One method is to use pre-numbered plastic locks which can be cut to obtain release. Though you have control over that, your keyholder would soon enough become aware of your release and then it's up to you to explain circumstances. Likewise, a duplicate key in a combination lock safe (like those used by realtors) might work, or even a spare key sealed in a tamper-detectable envelope would suffice. Failing those methods, maybe a bolt cutter might work? lol7 months ago
DukestoyThanks for the replies. While I would never consider breaking Her trust, the aspect of chastity that gets me going is the complete relinquishment of control: I need Her to have total power over my orgasms, so having the ability to cut a tag (even with consequences) would make the situation less "real" - if that makes sense?7 months ago
ajteeI'm pretty much permanently locked in a LORI and I have no access to a key. When we travel (200 miles away last week) she "forgot" to bring the key. The device fit is important and if it is of great quality and you know the "choice" is in her hands, the need for a key doesn't factor in - at least for my situation. If there is any doubt about being "caught" in your device, have a spare available. I just don't have a say in the matter anymore as she now has complete control and loves it.7 months ago
chastebobOther personal issues aside, your anatomy and fit can have something to do with the need for an emergency key. I've been in various devices for almost 10 years now, and every one of them produced edema within a single day. So my unlock is basically every day for a few hours. Doesn't mean I get to cum. But if it should get worse quicker than usual I would need a key. I understand what you mean when you talk about the feeling with complete loss of control. Just be very aware of how your fit works for you.7 months ago
DukestoyThanks for that advice. The plan is that I'll give myself a few weeks to build up my duration and iron out any problems, and then (if there are no issues) I'll hand over the keys permanently.7 months ago
DukestoyThanks for all the suggestions. We received our custom-made Evotion cage a couple if weeks ago, but there was a slight sizing problem due to miscommunication between them and me, so we're awaiting a replacement piece. In the meantime, I've bought one of these tinyurl.com/jhuskct and I've put it on the side of my Better Half's dressing table.